Day1father #ItsOkayToNotBeOkay Tee
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Some days you're not okay. And that's perfectly okay.
The Day1father #ItsOkayToNotBeOkay tee is for every caregiver sitting at the table, feeling the weight, knowing the struggle is real.
This isn't toxic positivity. This is real talk.
For the young caregiver exhausted from being strong.
For the single parent barely holding it together.
For the sibling raising siblings while falling apart inside.
For anyone who's tired of pretending they're fine.
You don't have to smile through the pain. You don't have to hide the struggle. You're allowed to sit in it, feel it, and say: I'm not okay today.
Day1father: Where honesty is stronger than pretending. 💙
THE STORY BEHIND THE DESIGN:
At 11, I sat at tables doing homework while worrying about dialysis schedules. I went to school exhausted from sleepless nights. I smiled when teachers asked if I was okay, even when I wasn't.
This design is the young person I was and the young caregivers who are living it now. Sitting there. Carrying too much. Not okay, but showing up anyway.
The comic book style represents how we're living a story nobody else can see. A silent struggle that deserves to be acknowledged.
It's okay to not be okay. Say it. Wear it. Own it.
PERFECT FOR:
• Caregivers struggling with mental health
• Young adults carrying adult responsibilities
• Single parents at their breaking point
• Anyone tired of toxic positivity
• Mental health awareness advocates
• Caregiver burnout support
• Honest conversations about wellness
• Breaking the stigma around struggling
ABOUT DAY1FATHER:
Day1father was born from the story of an 11 year old who became the father figure his family needed when his mother started dialysis. This Black owned brand honors the REAL caregiver journey—not just the strength, but the silent struggles nobody talks about.
We don't celebrate toxic positivity. We celebrate honest humanity.
A portion of proceeds supports caregiver mental health resources.
💙 It's okay to not be okay. You're not alone.
Product features
- Ribbed knit collar with seam for elasticity and shape retention
- With side seams for garment's shape longevity and structural support
- Shoulder tape for stabilization and prevent stretching
- Made with light fabric (4.3 oz/yd²) suitable for all seasons
- Heather colors with 90% cotton, 10% polyester blend for added comfort
Care instructions
- Do not dryclean
- Machine wash: cold (max 30C or 90F)
- Do not bleach
- Tumble dry: low heat
- Iron, steam or dry: low heat
| XS | S | M | L | XL | 2XL | 3XL | 4XL | 5XL | |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Width, in | 17.48 | 19.02 | 20.51 | 22.01 | 24.02 | 26.02 | 27.99 | 30.00 | 32.00 |
| Length, in | 27.01 | 27.99 | 29.02 | 30.00 | 31.02 | 32.01 | 32.99 | 34.02 | 35.00 |
| Sleeve length, in | 7.09 | 7.48 | 7.87 | 8.27 | 8.66 | 9.06 | 9.45 | 9.84 | 10.24 |
Product information: Next Level 3600, 2 year warranty in EU and Northern Ireland as per Directive 1999/44/EC
Warnings, Hazard: For adults, Made in Honduras
Care instructions: Machine wash: cold (max 30C or 90F), Do not bleach, Tumble dry: low heat, Iron, steam or dry: low heat, Do not dryclean