About The Founder
I never planned to start a brand.
I was just trying to survive.
Where It Started
In 1995, when I was 11 years old, my father left.
Two weeks later, my mother, Ida Mae Mason, started dialysis.
Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, before most people were awake, we rode two buses across Tampa to get her to treatment.
Hospital visits. Medicine. Waiting rooms. Grocery trips after treatment. Then two buses home.
At the time, I did not have words like parentification, caregiver burnout, or childhood trauma.
I just knew somebody needed me.
The Years That Followed
My mother battled kidney disease for nearly fifteen years.
During that time, responsibility became normal.
Not because I chose it.
Because there was nobody else.
Like many children who grow up too fast, I learned how to carry things that were bigger than me.
Not just responsibilities.
Fear.
Pressure.
Guilt.
The feeling that if I stopped showing up, everything would fall apart.
Lula Mae Mason
One of the people who helped me through those years was my grandmother, Lula Mae Mason.
She became partially paralyzed in the late 1990s, but that never changed who she was to me.
She was my safe place.
The person who listened to my poems before anyone else cared about them.
The person who listened to my lyrics and ideas.
The person I could talk to about almost anything.
When I was young, she would give me quarters for helping in the yard.
Looking back, it was never really about the quarters.
It was about feeling seen.
She believed in me before I believed in myself.
She passed away in 2003.
My father leaving changed my life.
My mother’s dialysis changed my life.
But Lula Mae Mason reminded me there was still love in the middle of all of it.
Part of Day1Father exists because she taught me that being seen matters.
Losing My Mother
In 2010, my mother, Ida Mae Mason, passed away.
What surprised me was that the responsibility did not leave with her.
The habits stayed.
The need to stay ready stayed.
The need to carry everything stayed.
And over the years I discovered there were people living with the same invisible weight.
Why I Created Day1Father
Day1Father was never meant to be another clothing brand.
It was created for the people nobody talks about.
The child who became the caregiver.
The adult child caring for a declining parent.
The single parent carrying everything alone.
The person everyone depends on.
The ones who learned how to survive long before they learned how to rest.
The ones who carried it.
What I Believe
I believe being strong costs more than most people realize.
I believe caregivers deserve recognition before they reach burnout.
I believe children should never have to become adults before their time.
And I believe people carry wounds that the world never sees.
Those stories deserve a place to exist.
Why I Tell This Story
I used to think this story was just mine.
Over the years I realized it wasn't.
There are millions of people carrying invisible weight.
The child who became the responsible one.
The caregiver nobody checked on.
The adult still carrying responsibilities that started long before adulthood.
Day1Father exists so those people know they are not carrying it alone.
Nobody was coming.
So I became the one who did.
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Founder, Day1Father
Tampa, Florida